Relief Society Spotlight

In our ward the Relief Society has a new presidency that are trying to get to know the sisters more. They have started doing a “spotlight” each Sunday on a sister who fills out a paper. They pick one to read after the announcements and before the lesson starts. They also send out a weekly email of announcements, including the typed up spotlighted sister. This week my spotlight was chosen. I figured this was a good history item to save.

LaReita first indicated that she goes by ‘Mom’. (Cute!)
She was born in Phoenix, Arizona
She has one brother and two sisters
She has lived in Phoenix, Tempe, Daly City (next to San Francisco)
She was baptized when she was eight years old by her father
She did not served a full-time mission but states that her mission is to raise her five sons to be wonderful missionaries
Her first job was working in her father’s office reading off numbers from microfilm to him
Her favorite church calling is working with the scouts, she enjoys helping boys grow.
Her favorite books are Kitchen Table Wisdom, My Grandfather’s Blessings, and The Book of Mormon
Her favorite movies are Fried Green Tomatoes and Count of Monte Cristo
Her favorite treats are Raw Coconut Macaroons by Raw Melissa and Mejool Dates with Peanut Butter
Her best vacation is every vacation, because there is always something great with each of them
Her favorite holiday is Pioneer Day because she enjoys being with her family and teaching them or learning about her ancestors
In her spare time she like to . . . oh wait, what spare time???? However, she does enjoy bicycling, preserving family history, and watching her garden grow
Her most precious possessions are her boys, including her husband, her non-working ’63 Chevy Impala from her grandma, her cello, her marked-up scriptures, her testimony, and her Patriarchal Blessing 🙂

We hope you know LaReita that you are a VERY IMPORTANT sister in our ward. Our lives are enriched because of you and your sweet giving, caring, and loving spirit.

Love and blessings,
Lil, Kelly, Melissa, and Adrienne

James TimeLine Biography for Genealogy MB

I was born on General Conference Easter Sunday, April 4, 1999. My mom remembers President Gordon B. Hinckley making an announcement that the Nauvoo temple was going to be rebuilt. In fact, she didn’t hear this information herself. She had fallen asleep, but when she woke up and asked family members what she missed, they told her about the Nauvoo temple. She didn’t believe them because this had been a long awaited 2nd coming prophecy to be fulfilled. She thought her joking husband (my dad) was pulling her leg. She asked the nurses, and they confirmed it. I was blessed on June 13, 1999.

When I was 2 1/2 years old my parents, little baby brother and I traveled to the east coast for the baptism of my cousin Jessica. We happened to be in New York City on the 6 month anniversary of 9/11. (We were there 3/11/2002.) My mom and dad remembered seeing a giant stream of light shoot up past the hotel windows. Also on that trip we went to Washington DC. A year later (August 2003) we returned for a fun trip to visit my Aunt Jenny and Uncle Dan in New Jersey. My cousins and I also went to Six Flags on that trip.

I was baptized and confirmed into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints on May 2007. I also remember walking into the girls bathroom on accident and running out when I realized I was in the wrong place. I remember the water being cold. My mom remembers me telling her, “I feel like a new person.” I would say that over and over again. When I was confirmed I did feel warm and fuzzy inside. All my family and cousin came, including my best friend Carlos and his family.

The start of my Scouting career got a jump start with my Arrow of Light on March 10, 2010. By August 2010 I received my Scouter rank. The next few months was a montage of “Get your Scout stuff done” and Pow Wows and Camps. By December of 2010 I had received my Tenderfoot, 2nd Class, and 1st class. I would have also received my Star rank, but my scout leader didn’t count my 6 months of leadership properly. The neat thing about all these ranks is that they have the 100 year celebration on them. I finally earned my Star rank in March 2011. It’s one year later I’m still a Star. I need to do more work.

The highlight of my life thus far was being ordained to the office of a deacon and gaining the Aaronic Priesthood on April 10, 2011. Shortly thereafter I became the secretary in the deacon’s quorum. (Just like my dad is usually secretary.) I once again felt warm and fuzzy inside. This was the Holy Ghost telling me that this is The Church of Jesus Christ.

I am hungry

Birthday Biking

Yesterday was my 37th birthday. I wanted to do something fun with my boys and create memories together. I had read about a new Mountain Bike park in Park City that was created specifically for mountain bicyclists to practice on. (Like a skate park.) As long as our family is trying different activities, I really wanted to try this out with them! Besides mountain biking has always been something that has intrigued me since I was in college and started biking.

Trailside Park opened in May of 2011 and there weren’t many people here on this Labor Day. It was a gorgeous day. Dave was our pit crew and Jacob’s playmate on the giant playground nearby.

The first thing we saw was a “pump track”. Hills designed for the mountain biker to learn how to get forward momentum without having to use pedals. We each tried this and were a little shaky, but we got better as we continued. James, Samuel and Benjamin got tired of this and went back to where dad and Jacob were. Anthony and I were pumped about this new adventure and we biked up the hill to see what other things there were to tackle.

Running Cousins

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Running cousins this morning for Spanish Fork Fiesta Days celebration. After Benjamin not doing so well in the Tour de Donut on the bike, I wanted him to experience something I knew his was good at – running. So Benjamin and Samuel did the 1 mile fun run with Matt. Benjamin’s time was 8:27 and Samuel’s time was 14:05. I started running with Benjamin, but he took off when Samuel and I were slowing him down. Benjamin also decided that he wanted to run barefoot, but did opt to run in socks since that would be slightly more comfortable. This was because he wanted a pair like my Vibram 5 fingers shoes, but they are too expensive for growing feet!

The older cousins ran the 10k. Brandon with his good friend Matt, Jared, Alyssa and Holly. In fact, I think after Brandon finished his 10k, Matt’s 1 mile fun run started and LaMont wasn’t ready to run with Matt, so Brandon jumped in the race to run with Matt. What a fantastic big brother!

And a little child shall lead them

I tell Jacob, “Time to go on a car ride!”

I open the garage door, get my things. He walks out. I go back in to get something else.

Find him out on the front lawn just sitting.

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“Come on! Let’s go!”

Shakes his head.

“We need to go!”

Nope.

Sigh.  I go pick him up amid his much protesting.
That day I thought I had to be a  Human Doing, instead of a Human Being.
I should have followed his example now that I look back at this picture.

Next time. Sadly, there won’t ever be that exact moment again.  I ignored that moment in time, and that moment will never come back.

Often I think that kids are sent to us to remind us to just BE.
Be quiet. Be still. Enjoy just being. Love our being.  Love our fellow beings.
Sit and feel nature and God’s love surround you.
Sit and feel of your child’s love.

“And a little child shall lead them.” – Isiah 11:6

To my chicken loving family members

I don’t know why it is that having chickens brings such joy, but it does! (On most days) Please forward to any other family that you know has chickens.  It would be interesting to find out how many of us are keeping chickens!

Perhaps our chicken fascination is genetic… afterall LEL hauled his chickens from Nevada to Idaho in 1942. Does anyone know why? Maybe he just liked them so much he wanted to keep them!

Yesterday this scene unfolded: my cat and chickens observing each other cautiously  with the back door as their barrier.  It was a hoot!

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Have a wonderful Easter  celebrating our Savior’s gift to all.
Love,
LaReita

2010 School Concert for UVS

The Utah Valley Symphony had their annual School Concert today.  LaReita having injured one of her fingers with a knife was unable to play.  So instead, she took James and Anthony out of school to attend the concert with her.  After years of playing in the concerts she finally go to sit next to her boys during this one.  Although cutting her finger so severely that she couldn’t play wasn’t the plan.

Some pictures from the concert:  (not only was it for children but there were also children performing!)

School children arriving at the Provo Tabernacle building.
School children arriving at the Provo Tabernacle building.

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Thoughts on Amulek in the Book of Mormon

I had some insights while reading in Alma (I have always loved that book), and keep having the thought that I need to write them down. So here are the insights.

I’ve been trying to read bigger sections so I can get a better picture. I’ve had bits and pieces of the following come to me over the years, but the past 2 days as I read Alma chapters 5-14, I have had a greater appreciation for Alma, and especially for Amulek.

King Mosiah dies and the reign of the judges commences. Alma is high judge of the land and high priest of the church. Seeing great wickedness start to creep in, so much so “that Alma, having seen the afflictions of the humble followers of God, and the persecutions which were heaped upon them by the remainder of the people, and seeing all their inequality, began to be very sorrowful; nevertheless the Spirit of the Lord did not fail him.” (see Alma 4:15). Alma decides to turn over his judgment seat to “a wise man who was among the elders of the church, and gave him power according to the voice of the people…” (Alma 4:16)

Then Alma goes out to perform his duties as “high priest over the church” (Alma 4:18). He teaches in

  • Zarahemla (where there’s been some struggles) – Alma ch. 5&6

  • Gideon (where they are doing good) – Alma ch. 7

  • Melek (doing good) – Alma 8:1-6

  • Ammonihah (doing really bad) – Alma 8:7-end, 9-14

  • Sidom (baptizes many, including healing & baptizing the lawyer Zeezrom from Ammonihah) – Alma 15

So now that I mention the overview so the overall picture can perhaps be seen.

After Alma leaves Melek, he goes to Ammonihah to “preach the word of God unto them. Now Satan had gotten great hold upon the hearts of the people of the city of Ammonihah; therefore they would not hearken unto the words of Alma. Nevertheless Alma labored much in the spirit, wrestling with God in mighty prayer, that he would pour out his Spirit upon the people who were in the city.” (Alma 8:8-10)

Alma is “reviled and they spat upon him, and caused that he should be cast out of their city.” (Alma 8:13). He is feeling really down, because “of the wickedness of the people who were in Ammonihah” (Alma 8:14). Then in verses 15-17 he sees an angel. It’s the same angel that came to him as a youth and told him to shape up or else! After giving Alma some comforting words, he tells Alma to go back to Ammonihah. And he does – “speedily” (Alma 8:18)

I mention the above because this man was not going to all these cities because he wanted to score high membership numbers in his quarterly reporting. He was doing it because he was genuine in his desire to see people come unto Christ. This is why I love Alma so much. His heart ached for people to be good, and do good, and to become like Christ.

Then here is where Amulek enters. Alma comes into Ammonihah a back way and asks the first person he sees if he would “give to an humble servant of God something to eat?” (Alma 8:19) Later in verse 26 Alma tells Amulek that he had been fasting for many days. So Alma was clearly doing his best to have the Spirit with him.

Amulek says that an angel came to him earlier and said that a prophet would be stopping by, and that Amulek needed to bring into his home. Alma stays in Amulek’s home “many days” before they went out to preach. When they do go out to preach and Amulek stands up to serve as a second witness to the things that Alma has been preaching, Amulek says that “he hath blessed mine house, he hath blessed me, and my women, and my children, and my father and my kinsfolk.” (Alma 10:11) So there was plenty of time for Amulek’s family to get to know the prophet and the teachings. Now whether or not all of the kinsfolk were fully converted…..I’ll get to that at the end.

The lawyer Zeezrom tries to bribe Alma and Amulek into denying their testimonies with gold. (Alma 11:22) But they see through him, denounce him, and start to teach the gospel to him and those gathered around. Zeezrom starts to change his attitude, so much that HE then starts to tell the people,

“I am guilty and these men are spotless before God. And he began to plead for them [Alma & Amulek] from that time forth; but they [the people] reviled him saying; Art thou also possessed with the devil? And they spit upon him and cast him out from among them, and also all those who believed in the words which had been spoken by Alma and Amulek; ” (Alma 14:7)

“And they [the people] brought their [Amulek?] wives and children together, and whosoever believed…and caused that they [the believers, women and children] should be cast into the fire.” (Alma 14:8)

Now here is where I start to really appreciate Amulek.

Did Amulek’s family, his “women and children”, get thrown into the fire? Were they believers? Think about it… His family hosted Alma for many days, and Alma “blessed them”. Had they been given priesthood blessings by Alma (the prophet) and Amulek (their husband/father)? Had Amulek’s women and children believed the prophet and their husband’s/father’s testimony?

He was a resident of the city. He was a “man of no small reputation..and acquired much riches by the hand of [his] industry.” (Alma 10:4) If the wicked people wanted to get revenge, it would seem likely to go after the person telling them to shape up. Especially if that person was a local celebrity of sorts? A mob mentality of “ha! I’ll show you.”

“And it came to pass that they took Alma and Amulek, and carried them forth to the place of martyrdom, that they might witness the destruction of those who were consumed by fire.

“And when Amulek saw the pains of the women and children who were consuming in the fire, he also was pained; and he said unto Alma: How can we witness this awful scene? Therefore let us stretch forth our hands, and exercise the power of god which is in us, and save them from the flames.

“But Alma said unto him; The Spirit constraineth me that I must not stretch forth mind hand; for behold the Lord receiveth them up unto himself, in glory; and he doth suffer that they may do this thing, or that the people may do this thing unto them, according to the hardness of their hearts, that the judgments which he shall exercise upon them in his wrath may be just; and the blood of the innocent shall stand as a witness against them, yea and cry mightily against them at the last day.” (Alma 14:8-11)

Did Amulek see his family burned?

To those that were witnessing the whole course of events, how did they view Alma and Amulek?

In Alma 14:15 they tell the prophet and his companion that they are fakes because they couldn’t do anything to save those thrown into the fire.

Alma and Amulek are put in prison, stripped of their clothes, the lawyers come and taunt them, hit and spit on them for “many days”. Finally Alma says, “O Lord, give us strength according to our faith which is in Christ, even unto deliverance.” (Alma 14:26) The prison walls crumble and crush all the bad guys and Alma & Amulek walk out unharmed.

They go to Sidon to preach. This is where “Zeezrom lay sick with a burning fever, which was caused by the great tribulations of his mind on account of his wickedness.” (Alma 15:3) He hears they are coming to Sidon and sends for them. He is miraculously healed according to his faith (Alma 15:6-12) and becomes a great teacher.

Zeezrom is another story that I love, which will be for another time.

After Alma and Amulek finish their business in Sidon, Alma decides to go back to his home in Zarahelma. But where does Amulek go?

He takes Amulek with him. Why?

If you were Amulek, would you go back to the city that kicked you out? Plus, what would you have to go back to?

In Alma 15:16 is says Amulek “was rejected by those who were once his friends and also by his father and his kindred,” (Alma 15:16)

Wow. Amulek was rejected by his father and his kindred. That is tough, especially back in those days, where family connections were of the utmost importance, especially with your father. At the beginning of this saga in Alma 10:11 Amulek said “he [Alma] hath blessed mine house, he hath blessed me, and my women, and my children, and my father and my kinsfolk.”

If his father and kindred were blessed by the prophet, why did they later turn and reject Amulek?

Did Amulek’s “women and children” die in the fire?

If yes, did Amulek’s father doubt and blame Amulek for not saving his very own family?

If so, where does Amulek go now?

“Now as I said, Alma having seen all these things, therefore he took Amulek and came over to the land of Zarahemla, and took him to his own house, and did administer unto him in his tribulations, and strengthened him in the Lord.” (Alma 15:18)

What a greater appreciation I have for Amulek. A husband, father, a man of “no small reputation” with riches, honor, gives it all up “for the word of God” (Alma 15:16).

How grateful for Amulek’s testimony and example. And how grateful I am to Alma who took him in “and did administer unto him in his tribulations, and strengthened him in the Lord.” That is the true spirit of the priesthood and the gospel. Strengthening each other. Especially in our tribulations.

I love the Book of Mormon. It is so plain, yet has so many hidden treasures waiting for us to discover and enrich our souls. How incredibly grateful I am for the scriptures and for the prophet Joseph Smith who translated directly from the plates written by those prophets a millenia ago. Their exact words. The plain and simple points of Christ’s gospel.

I love my Savior, even Jesus Christ. The fullness of His gospel is here, alive and well!

Homemade Laundry Soap

These recipes are from a couple sisters in my Relief Society. I love how they aren’t  ‘smelly’ and they still do fine in cleaning. This is the source: http://www.soapsgonebuy.com/category_s/24.htm . I was able to find all these ingredients at my local grocery store.

First Recipe:

3 Pints Water
1/3 bar Fels Naptha Soap, grated
1/2 cup Washing Soda (Arm and Hammer, NOT baking soda though!!)
1/2 cup 20 Mule Team Borax
2 Gallon bucket to mix it in
1 Quart hot water Hot Water

Mix Fels Naptha soap in a saucepan with 3 pints hot water and heat on low until dissolved. Stir in Washing Soda and Borax. Stir until thickened, and remove from heat. Add 1 Quart Hot Water to 2 gallon Bucket. Add soap mixture, and mix well. Fill bucket completely with additional hot water, and mix well. Set aside for 24 hours, or until mixture thickens. You may add additional HOT water if the mixture becomes too thick.  Mix Well before each use. Use 1/2 cup of mixture per load. Makes 64 loads. Cost per load .03.

Second Recipe:

Water
1 bar grated Fels Naptha soap
5 gallon bucket
1 cup washing soda (Again, Arm and Hammer, not baking soda)
1 cup 20 Mule Team Borax
4 1/2 gallons water

Put grated Fels Naptha in saucepan and cover with water. Heat on low until dissolved. Fill bucket with hot water and add soap. Stir to combine. Add 1 cup washing soda and 1 cup borax and mix well. As it cools, it will thicken. If mixture becomes too thick, add hot water to thin it to desired consistency.  May be used immediately. Mix well before each use. Use 1/2(normal) to 1 cup per load (heavy). Cost per load .04.

Powdered Laundry Detergent (I haven’t tried)

1 cup grated Fels Naptha Soap
1/2 cup washing soda
1/2 cup 20 mule team borax

Mix and store in airtight container or bag. For light or small loads, use 1 tablespoon. For normal loads, use 2 tablespoons. For heavy loads, use 3 tablespoons. Cost per load .15.

To make a large batch – grate 6 bars of Fels Naptha Soap and then add 3 cups of Washing Soda and 3 cups of 20 Mule Team Borax.  Mix well and store in covered container.

TIP: The above recipes will NOT make suds in your washer so don’t be alarmed.  Fels Naptha Soap is a pure soap and typically makes little or no suds in the water.  This makes it perfect for use in the new HE washers as well as traditional washers.  The website that these recipes came from say that you will also notice the need to either reduce your laundry softener or in most cases you can even eliminate the use of softener completely, but I haven’t seen this yet for my laundry. But I don’t use softener anyway because I think that putting chemicals on your clothes probably isn’t the best idea.