Category: Family

James’ 5th Birthday & St. George Easter Trip

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James’s 5th Birthday




We decided for James’s Birthday cake to do brownies so he and the other kids would actually eat the “cake”, not just the frosting. Everyone loved it! (And Julles loved not having to make a fancy/special cake…)

2004 Easter in St. George




James doing an Easter Egg Hunt in the desert of St. George on the Staheli “farm”. Pictured with cousin Charise Staheli (2 yrs old).




Anthony missed out on the egg hunt, but got a most-needed nap.




James excitedly talking about the Indian house they found on the other side of the mountain.




LaReita and her Benjamin.




Anthony and Benjamin talking and smiling at each other while driving on our way back.

Notes about the trip by David:

St. George was cold. We arrived about 6:00 and had some Chinese food. LaReita took off for her rehearsal and the rest of us played and watched a movie.

Saturday morning the kids played, Wyn and I talked business. Then we went to Paul’s parents house and had an outdoor picnic with 4-wheeler and horse rides. We got pictures of the boys. I will post them on the family website later this week. The adults hid the eggs and the kids found them. James got quite a few (they let him and the other little kids go first).

Anthony fell asleep just before the egg hunt, but he awoke in time for the candy gorging. James and the other kids shared their candy and Anthony helped himself when they weren’t looking.

I taught Jared some HTML and we spent all the rest of the day making a Pokemon and Hillary Duff website. LaReita went to another rehearsal that night. We watched Catch Me If You Can when she got back around 9:30pm.

Sunday we got ready for church and went at 11am. Stayed for the block. James went with Auria to her class. I went with Anthony into the nursery and had Cheeze-Wiz and crackers.

We had lasagna for lunch/dinner and took turns taking naps. LaReita and Wyn went to her performance and didn’t get back until 10:30. Anthony had a cup of milk (not a sippy-cup), forgot it wasn’t a sippy-cup and cried when he dumped it on himself. I cleaned him up and he cried himself to sleep.

Played a race car game on their X-box with James and Anthony, gathered our crap and stuffed it into the car. Drove to Beaver, ate lunch at a pretty good restaurant and drove home.

Ben was a good traveler and seems to be feeling better.

Notes about the trip by LaReita:

Yeah, it was cold and rainy. Thinking that it was going to be warm, all I packed for Benjamin was summer outfits aside from his PJ’s and his Sunday outfit that had pants.

It was fun to see James and his cousins play together. I’m glad I went just for that. Also I’m glad to have gone to see my Aunt Dawna and Uncle Kerry at the performance. They just kept hugging me over and over. Makes me realize how much I’ve missed them. It’s sad to see her in a wheelchair and getting old. But it sure was sweet to see Uncle Kerry take care of her by pushing her around….well in the good sense of that term 🙂 He would actually laugh at that. He’s a pretty funny guy.

While he was playing outside Anthony got stuck in the barbed wire (not cut fortunately) and his pants got all muddy. Seems like I hardly saw James because he was off playing so much with his cousins. On Saturday he was playing on the Xbox (Attack of the Clones) until about noon. When I told him that everyone was going down to the “park” he didn’t want to go. Complained that he was too tired to go…his legs were too tired. (when he really just wanted to stay and play the Xbox some more.)

Anthony was more than excited to go for a walk and play on the swings at the Staheli Compound Park. In fact, he liked the park so much that on Monday when we were packing up the car, he got his shoes on and took off walking (nearly running) by himself down to the park. Dave and I took turns watching him walk/run down. When he started playing on the tire swing and I got my keys and drove down to get him. Anthony has definitely got the middle child syndrome. Just takes off without telling anyone. (But I guess that could also be a “last child” syndrome too…)

At the family picnic/egg hunt, James had a fun time hiking the “mountain” with Auria – Wyn went too. He came back so excited to tell us about the Indian house they found. (It is an old abandoned house built with rock.) James also gave the prayer on the food. I was in the car nursing Benjamin (because it was so cold) so I didn’t get to hear him pray. But when he said “amen” everyone was smiling. I never did ask what he said to warrant so many smiles by the adults. But James was also just beaming when he finished.

Right now (as I write this) James is showing Anthony all the different planets in his room and telling him, “That’s Mars. Anthony say Mars.” “mars” “Good Boy! Anthony, that’s Jupiter. it’s so big.” Anthony responds, “yeah, Biiig Juper”

Benjamin just turned over onto his tummy in the crib and James is so excited!

Benjamin’s Blessing Day

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March 28th, 2004 – Benjamin’s Blessing Day




Benjamin in his blessing outfit. Held by family friend, Meika Boogart.






Benjamin with Grandma Berky






Grandma & Grandpa Berky with Benjamin and James.






4 generations of Berkys/Smiths: Great-grandpa James Raymond Smith, Grandpa Roger Diehl Berky, Grandma Anne Smith Berky, Father David Diehl Berky, James Andrew Berky, Anthony David Berky and Benjamin D Berky



Benjamin’s First Two Weeks Of Life

February 2004 – Benjamin’s First Two Weeks Of Life


Leaving the hospital and going to my earthly home with my family.


Here’s a Mom’s-eye-view of Benjamin.


One of the rare times Benjamin is awake. He sleeps about 19 hours each day. It’s a great and welcome relief compared to Anthony’s baby-hood. Anthony was always awake it seemed.


Benjamin with his favorite Aunt Julie.


Angelic Benjamin D Berky. Notice how little hair he has?

Benjamin D Berky

January 2004 – Benjamin D Berky


Mommy to be for the third time struttin’ her stuff.


First picture of Benjamin D Berky.


Mom & Me


My first bath.


David & LaReita Berky Family v.4


I am the star of the show.

Benjamin D Berky was born at 9:17am, January 21st, 2004 after a thankfully short labor of love by his mother. David & LaReita raced to the hospital at 4:30am when LaReita’s contractions began to come regularly and were increasing in strength. On the way (and between contractions) LaReita chided the ever-cautious David for only driving 75 mph on the freeway. (LaReita says: After all, the contractions were 2 minutes apart and lasting 90 seconds!)

Upon arriving they found their way to the Labor & Delivery area of the Utah Valley Regional Medical Center in Provo, Utah, a 15 minute drive from home. They wandered the halls for awhile until finding a nurse on duty who could direct them to a room. LaReita was quickly prepped and was given an epidural by 6am.

Both LaReita and David were able to get some more sleep from 6 to 8:30am; LaReita in comfort from the epidural and David from exhaustion (he needs his 8 hours of sleep). Around 8:30am the nurse came in and LaReita asked for a catheter. Before the catheter LaReita was at 6cm; after the catheter she went to a 10cm. Dr. Nance was called and arrived about 10 minutes later (LaReita swears it was more like 30).

Once Dr. Nance arrived at 9:10, it only took 5 pushes for Benjamin to take his first breath. As Dr. Nance began to examine him a portion of his umbilical cord ruptured and a gush of bright red blood squirted all over the delivery room. (“Just like in ER” David was heard to comment later.) The incident posed no threat to mother or baby, but Dr. Nance was going to need some new clothes.

Dr. Nance allowed David to cut the umbilical cord and Benjamin was cleaned, checked, weighed, measured, poked, prodded, given a shot and wrapped up to be placed in the arms of his mother for the first time. Later David went with Benjamin into the nursery so he could be checked more thoroughly, given another shot (he only cried for a minute to the pleasure and pride of his dad) and then given his first bath.

Later several family members arrived to meet their new relative. LaReita’s mom, Grace Leavitt, came with Aunt Julie (David’s sister) and brought Benjamin’s brothers, James and Anthony. James couldn’t wait to hold his new brother. Anthony couldn’t wait to play with the buttons on mom’s bed.

Benjamin weighed 8 pounds and 7 ounces, was 21 inches long and scored a 9 and 9 on his APGAR baby exam scores (1-10 scale).

James and Anthony are excited for their new brother to come home and play.

Spanish Fork Snow Storm

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December 2003 – Spanish Fork Snow Storm




“Meika’s car has more snow on her car than she has car! (Well, not quite)”




“can you believe that 2 days later we really did go out and BBQ some hamburgers! We did have to brush off the snow…but they were good! Our neighbors must think we’re crazy”





“The best snow angel that James has ever done!”


James & Anthony – Our Handsome Boys

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August 2003 – James & Anthony – Our Handsome Boys




Anthony’s so handsome! They grow up too fast.





James on a New Jersey beach. He’s going to be a lady killer.





On the airplane, they fell asleep watching a DVD on dad’s laptop.