Dad’s Zucchini Gift

Dear Family,
Today I drove by Dad’s grave and stopped by for a visit.
I needed to thank him for being one of our angels helping make things happen faster than the speed of light.

Of course, as part of family tradition, I had to leave some food (even though he can’t eat it.)
He wasn’t there at the grave as I was talking with him, but he was hearing me. However, as I was walking to the car I felt
a great sense of joy, his big smile, and heard his hearty laugh in response to seeing the gift I left him… I laughed out loud too!

Some shredded zucchini that I used as an ice pack for my lunch that day!  (see picture)

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And the other half of the bag of zucchini I left on Uncle Kerry’s grave that is right next to Dad’s.

I told both of them that I look forward to when our families can all sit down together and partake of a meal together…with no empty chairs… and no burnt food!  🙂  (Inside joke with Uncle Kerry, who burnt Lynette’s birthday cake on her 13th birthday.)

The gospel is true!
Bringing families together not just through temple work, but through emotional work, is something that I strongly feel is part of the Lord’s work that we are to help accomplish here on earth.

May this picture bring a smile to your face and hopefully  you can remember Dad’s hearty laugh as well…

With Much love,
LaReita


January Updates

On the 12th (Wed) we had a joint celebration with Alex as he was going into the MTC the next day. So we had a combination Farewell and Happy birthday cake.  That’s the first picture. The video is also on my FB page (so his mom in Germany could see), if you want to hear the combo song 🙂

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On the 13th (Thurs and Sam’s bday) Samuel woke up crying because “I didn’t get any presents for my birthday!”  Well, I guess that’s what usually happens after you sing happy birthday and blow out candles, you get presents.  I assured him that today was his birthday, and that we were having his party today, and he would get presents.  My boys missed the 1st 2 hours of school so we could take Alex to the MTC by 8:30 am.  It was a great testimony building and confirming experience for them as they saw the fruits of their prayers come to pass. Side note: Missionary arrivals are usually on Wednesday at Noon, however his flights were delayed due to snow. So I called the MTC and they said bring him by Thursday morning.  So we did.

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Took the boys back to school, and Samuel to  his preschool.  At 1:00 (Before school got out) I had Samuel’s preschool friends come over and we had a fun little b-day party.  Julles stopped by to pick something up, and I said, “Oh good, you’re just in time for the party!”  She stayed and helped and played balloon games with us.  Got some smiles out of her, so that was good.  BTW – yes, you only see 1/2 a cake for Samuel.  We ate the 1st half of the cake the night before for Alex’s farewell.  Saved the other 1/2 for Sam’s bday.  Not like the kids cared!  All they wanted was the chocolate and the icing anyway.  I also sent home some citrus in their party gift bags.  I tell you, EVERYONE (even the kids) were excited for it!

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Benjamin’s birthday was fortunate to land on a Friday, so we had kids come over right after school.  We had cake 1st, a foam sword fight, and then we gathered up our snow gear and went sledding to the golf course.

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Wasn’t the best sledding conditions, but it was warm enough that some didn’t really need to wear their jackets.  Though they did all wear their gloves.  And as is tradition with all Berky birthdays that are outings, someone got an injury that required 1st aid.  It was a friend that went off a small jump and landed face first in a snow wall that someone had built up and got a HUGE bloody nose.  We saw him at church on Sunday, it there were some pretty awesome looking scabs on his face!  Fortunately the mom had already arrived to pick him up, so that was good timing.  My first aid kit for my car is starting to run out of supplies!  Time to load it back up!

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Jacob in the Luv-sac (January 21st)

Anthony’s 9th “Friend” Birthday Party

Anthony really wanted to have a friend birthday party this year since last year he only had a family party.  LaReita planned a fun bike ride from our home to the Spanish Fork North Park down a newly paved bike path that practically runs from our street right down to the park.  Yes it is “down” as in “down-hill”.  One party-goer (Bethany) did have a minor bike accident but was able to continue on and get to the park.  We all told our bike crashes to make her feel better. (Hopefully it did.)

And after the cake (brownies) LaReita went with a few boys to see where the bike path ended.  On a bumpy dirt part, Samuel crashed right in front of LaReita’s tire. LaReita couldn’t stop fast enough to keep from rolling over Samuel. So she ditched her bike, and twisted her ankle.  There was some pretty good swelling, and will be for quite a few more days.  It was quite the adventure!  (Before she left the house, she kept having the prompting to find her bike backpack that had a camelbak of water, and her emergency oils.  She couldn’t find it, but at least grabbed a small first aid kit, which certainly did come in handy.  Another lesson learned in following promptings!  And wearing bike helmets!)

The kids played for about 30 minutes once they got to the park.

Bethany and Benjamin
Bethany and Benjamin

The party did have its ups and downs:

Carlos, Sam & Anthony
Cesar, Sam & Anthony

Cesar, Sam & Anthony
Cesar, Sam & Anthony

Then Dad arrived with the Pizza, Pop and Puffs (Cheetos)!

Party!
Party!

Matt, Jacob and Cesar
Matt, Jacob and Cesar

Next it was time for CAKE!

Anthony and his "cake" (frosted brownies).
Anthony and his "cake" (frosted brownies).

Next: PRESENTS!

Jacob, Matt, Kooper, Anthony, Bethany, Benjamin, Sam
Jacob, Matt, Kooper, Anthony, Bethany, Benjamin, Sam

Anthony, Kooper, Carlos, Benjamin, Garett
Anthony, Kooper, Carlos, Benjamin, Garett

And more presents!

Kooper, James, Anthony, Benjamin
Kooper, James, Anthony, Benjamin

Jacob, Kooper, Anthony, James, Bethany, Benjamin, Sam
Jacob, Kooper, Anthony, James, Bethany, Benjamin, Sam

And more bike riding:

Sam tried nearly all the "big boy bikes".
Sam tried nearly all the "big boy bikes".

Benjamin on a "big boy bike".
Benjamin on a "big boy bike".

More fun:

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Getting ready to bike home.
Getting ready to bike home.

Jacob had his cake, but ate it too!
Jacob had his cake, but ate it too!

Winding up and heading home:  David had to bike home because of LaReita’s swollen ankle.  (She took the van back.)  First time Dave has biked up a hill since last summer.  He came home and said, “I’m going to go die now,”  and crashed on the downstairs couch for 2 hours.  Carlos, Cesar and Kooper stayed at our house for another hour or so to play with the new toys.   One of our kids asked, “Where’s dad?”  Kooper said, “Oh, don’t bother him right now. He’s busy dying.”  Oh the funny things kids say!

They all fall down!
They all fall down!

Mom in the picture.
Mom in the picture.

What fun! Happy 9th birthday Anthony!

Lagoon in the Fall

We’d been promising the boys that we would go to the Lagoon amusement park all summer long and we finally found a free weekend.  Mom took Jacob and Sam on the kid rides while dad had to endure the roller-coasters with James, Anthony and Benjamin.

Sam and Jacob on the car ride (like they didn't get enough of the car on the hour long drive to get there!)
Sam and Jacob on the car ride (like they didn't get enough of the car on the hour long drive to get there!)

Jacob and Sam on the Rocket Ship ride.
Jacob and Sam on the Rocket Ship ride.

Sam on the Swing ride.
Sam on the Swing ride.

Anthony, James (how cute) and Benjamin posing.
Anthony, James (how cute) and Benjamin posing.

World’s Longest Pinewood Derby Track

Just a few weeks before attending the World’s Longest Pinewood Derby Track event, our local Cub Scout Pack had their Pinewood Derby race.

The Berky Family Cars
The Berky Family Cars

We made 4 pinewood derby cars with the help of a neighbor and his jig saw.  The boys had their cards painted with spray paint and then they painted their own designs on them.  Although none of the cars were super-fast, they were not the slowest cars either and all the boys got to race their cars after the official race was over.  Anthony, the only Berky boy eligible for the official race did well with his car – once they got it going the right direction.

Then several weeks later we attended the World’s Longest Pinewood Derby event in Sandy, UT.  Grandpa Berky was with us as well.  The event was held at the Rio Tinto Soccer stadium in Sandy.  There were not as many people there as we had thought there would be so the boys got to race their cars down the track a lot of times.  And since it was not an official race, we were allowed to put all kinds of extra things on the cars to weigh them down so they would go faster and longer on the track.  We used batteries, screw-drivers, even the bottle of wood glue we had brought along.

The Berky Family at the World's Longest Pinewood Derby Track
The Berky Family at the World's Longest Pinewood Derby Track

James before a race. He was even interviewed by a TV News Channel, but didn't make it on the news.
James before a race. He was even interviewed by a TV News Channel, but didn't make it on the news.

Cesar & Carlos Nunez, Benjamin, Anthony and James Berky
Cesar & Carlos Nunez, Benjamin, Anthony and James Berky

Grandpa Berky keeping Jacob entertained.
Grandpa Berky keeping Jacob entertained.

Anthony’s 8th birthday party

Anthony putting a Bionicle on his chocolate cake
Anthony putting a Bionicle on his chocolate cake

I added some 'special' ingredient in this cake to make it more healthy, and nobody noticed!  (Probably because of all the frosting)
I added some 'special' ingredient in this cake to make it more healthy, and nobody noticed! (Probably because of all the frosting)

We celebrated Anthony’s birthday on Saturday since his official birthday fell on Sunday this year. (He wasn’t too happy about that.)

He has been begging to play at the Park School playground as they have recently refurbished their playground and are now all the envy of the elementary schools in our district. So I decided that this would be a good place (and free!) for his birthday party. It was a beautiful day, and was filled with A LOT of boys.

Birthday Bash friends
Birthday Bash friends

Park Elementary School playground
Park Elementary School playground

Anthony really excited to get Ferio and Skirmix (Bionicles)
Anthony really excited to get Ferio and Skirmix (Bionicles)

Anthony got a new 'truck' for his skateboard
Anthony got a new 'truck' for his skateboard

New shoes!
New shoes!

Samuel swinging at the pinata
Samuel swinging at the pinata

Shoe-less Sam even in 50 degree weather
Shoe-less Sam even in 50 degree weather

picnic birthday party.  Anthony, Cesar, Ben, Sam
picnic birthday party. Anthony, Cesar, Daniel G., Sam